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  1. Naiwen

    Asking someone out?

    Is it so hard for people (men and women) to ask people out nowadays? I've had people ( men and women) assuming that I'm their girlfriend just because I'm in the same group therapy as them. Hello, I'm hanging out with you because I have to, no because I'm in a relationship with you. A 15-16 years...
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    Good morning from Flint

    Hello @Flint, welcome, enjoy your stay.
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    Jon's Here

    Hello @Jon, welcome, enjoy your stay.
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    I hate Relationships!

    I just don’t care about anyone else besides myself.
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    I hate Relationships!

    Personally, I'm aro-ace, so I don't feel romantic love at all. I don't believe in the "right" person to meet bs either.
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    Disabilities and Relationships?

    Well I personally for one, have many mental and physical health issues, I just desire peace of mind and a quiet life, freedom and independence over bickering and fighting and melodrama, and also, I don't believe there's a "right" person for everyone. I don't believe in that soulmate shit either...
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    Autism and Relationships?

    As someone with Asperger's, I hate being in a relationship more than anything. Why? Because I can't do whatever I want and whenever I want without having to compromise or to answer to the other person. Single, I could really enjoy life. I personally enjoy a lot more being single, independent and...
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    A few Signs that a Man is into you?

    Personally, I'm speaking as a lady vs man hitting on me, because that's the biological gender that I am. I don't have experience with women hitting on me. So man will : give your freebies, buy you expensive and feminine gifts, stutter at your appearance, attempt to strike a conversation with you...
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    I hate Relationships!

    I totally hate them personally. Why? Because they are too stressful, melodramatic, energy and time consuming for me personally at least anyways. When I've been in one online, I've been so focused on chatting with this person that I couldn't do anything else because of my OCD.
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    Paperwork with Inheritance?

    Has any relatives left you a large sum of money after their passing? My aunt has, and they're actually fighting over her inheritance and things. It's becoming worse and worse by the day as I'm going through her pictures and albums and recordings. It's the hardest time for me yet that the passing...
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    Man or Woman?

    If given the choice at birth, which gender would you choose and why? I'd like to see some perspectives from the male' PoV because I hate being a lady personally. But maybe being one isn't so bad compared to being a man in today's society.
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    Ladies and Gentlemen, how do you handle Rejections personally?

    As a gent and a lady, there must be some big differences on how you deal with romantic rejections. I'm usually personally always the rejector, never the one who's being rejected. And I've seen that people (men and women, all cultural and religious backgrounds, from all sexual and romantic...
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    Ever been cat-called?

    Being cat-called isn't nice for me personally at least anyways. I used to go anywhere, there would be a guy/man calling me " a btueaiful girl like you..." or "she's hot, but..." or "how do I contact you again?" right after school at ages around 14-15 by a man in his 30ties-40ties. Creepy and...
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    How to attract a super rich/wealthy and popular/handsome man/guy?

    I have dated a few very well-off exes from department directors to CEOs. So how have I done it? And all my male friends currently, are pretty wealthy and attracted to me sexually and romantically. 1. Be natural beautiful. No make-up and no plastic surgery. 2. Be intelligent, decent and firm...
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    Death and Depression?

    Anyone passing away is always depressing for the family, friends and their loved ones. I'm going through this currently with my aunt, who's also my godmother.
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    Aunt has passed from Breast Cancer!

    My aunt has passed away today. Memorial service is scheduled for next week. The whole family is devastated but more so my cousin and uncle are crying their hearts and eyes out.
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    Is anyone Trans?

    I'd like to know what has to be done with the process of transitioning from one sex to another gender. And how's it like for you before and after transitioning? Why have you decided to change your gender assigned at birth?
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    Anyone a Tomboy/Crossdresser?

    Maybe you as a gentleman, like to dress as a lady, I've no issues with it personally. Myself, I'm a tomboy, as not to attract old leeches and unwanted romantic attention. I dress like a boy, love boy toys, fixing cars and tech, and love gaming and web management as well as coding and programming...
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    The Oldest Person to fall in Love with you?

    For me personally at least anyways, it's a random perfect stranger 90-91 years old married man with great-great-grandkids. So yeah, I'm the age of your granddaughter, that's creepy and predatory as hell. He's what? 50-60 years older than me and has a family to take care of. I can't believe these...
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    5 Years Anniversary!

    It’s been 5 years exactly today that I haven’t attempted or even thought about suicide. I wish to give advice to someone going through this. Don’t end your life just because of a moment’s unhappiness, you are in an emotional crisis and realize this too shall pass. Suffering is unnecessary and...
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