Naiwen
Member
Do you personally prefer to date offline or online? Done both and I've hated both personally!
Online or Offline?
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Shortie
Member
I have dated both online and offline and my last relationship was offline unfortunately it turned out to be a mentally abusive one that I ended up being stuck in for over 10 years before I finally spoke up and told someone how I felt and what I was going through. Unfortunately, I ended up being in the relationship for that long because I had drummed into my head that no one would believe me, no one would want me if I were to ever leave and I let all that get to my head and believed it. I am now out of that relationship and I am in a relationship now that I have been in for nearly 9 years which is a long-distance online relationship at the moment. Due to the pandemic and the increasing cost of living, meeting in person is something that has had to be pushed back but we are hoping to meet soon when things settle down.
Dori
Member
There's nothing in this world that's going to make me fall in love with any lady I meet online and which would led me to starting a relationship with her. It's a complete joke to me because most times, all of it ends up being a waste of time.
Zuby
Member
Dating online is very stressful. How can I be dating and in a relationship with someone that I can't be close to feel whenever I miss him or her. I will never waste my time trying to date online. Dating offline is the best way to be in a relationship.
Jega
Member
Online dating isn't worth it for me as a man. I've tried it one time and all it ended up was sending money to the lady all the time while the only thing that I got in return was chatting. Can you call that a relationship?
Sara
Member
I met my first guy from online. It was even on a comment section that we started talking. It worked for us in many ways. Issues wasn't that unbearable but just that he's not ever ready to marry in his life, I decided to move on with my life.
Tony
Member
Personally, I don't have any business dating someone online because I am the kind of person who enjoys being in a close proximity with someone I am in a relationship with.
I love meeting with my partner often because that is how the bond gets stronger.
Bisola
Member
I don't have any business with trying to date anyone online. If it's not a close relationship which I can visit and be with my partner whenever I want to, I'm not interested.
Sara
Member
You can meet different personalities online but the only way you can differentiate what you want and what you don't want is from meeting, staying with them and knowing what they possess as characters. The same way you watched them, the same way they do to you too.
I don't know how some people can date online for about 2 or 3 years, then come together to prepare their wedding. Definitely, it works for some while it leads to divorce for others. Their last words always come with that they didn't know he/she have such characters.