Being hit on by older People?

Naiwen

Naiwen

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I have been hit on by people (men and women) 15 years my senior, married, wrinkled, obese and with glasses. If I were into dating and relationships, I wouldn't date guys/men 5 years older than me. Once, at a bus stop, I've had a 90 years old man tell me that "I'm a beautiful woman". I've removed myself from the situation. Another 83 years old, married with great-grandkids, has said the same thing to me. Another man 15 years my senior, but looking like he's 70 years old old, has been obsessed with me, stalking and sexually harassing me in my group therapy. I've had to tell his therapist to stop doing that.
 
I've never found myself in this kind of situation and I am going to be very honest because it would feel very awkward for someone who is older than me with more than 20 years to be trying to get into any kind of romantic relationship with me. I find it very absurd.
 
I've been approached by a man who was 10 years older than me some years. I never had problems with the age gap because I'm open to dating someone who's 10 to 15 years older than myself.
 
There is always a possibility of someone seeing you attractive and this is what is going to make them to be showing interest in having something to do with you. It's all up to you to decide if you want to.
 
The only time I experienced an older person being attractive to me was when I was 19 years of age. It's not something that I can get used to, I asked the old man to never in his life talk to me again. He never did and I haven't experienced again.
 
Always give a firm no, don’t even think about it. Some might be enticed by riches and a lavish lifestyle. If you know you don’t fancy such relationships then stand your ground.
 
My No is No. I don't fancy riches and lavish lifestyle from old men. I can make my own money and I won't allow an old man that's old to be my father start being attractive to me.
 
Age doesn't have anything to do with someone who's going to have feelings for you. That someone is 20 years or more isn't enough reason why they shouldn't have feelings for you and want you. It's all about what you want.
 
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