I have been hit on by people (men and women) 15 years my senior, married, wrinkled, obese and with glasses. If I were into dating and relationships, I wouldn't date guys/men 5 years older than me. Once, at a bus stop, I've had a 90 years old man tell me that "I'm a beautiful woman". I've removed myself from the situation. Another 83 years old, married with great-grandkids, has said the same thing to me. Another man 15 years my senior, but looking like he's 70 years old old, has been obsessed with me, stalking and sexually harassing me in my group therapy. I've had to tell his therapist to stop doing that.