Secret Admirers, anyone?

[Naiwen]

I have a few male college mates who worship me, putting me on a pedestal, which is making their current life partner (male or female) very jealous. If you're secretly in love with someone and have been for a long time without it being reciprocated, it could lead to obsession, lust, possession, depression and jealousy in your current relationship with your currently life partner if you are in one currently. It's not very healthy or advisable to be secretly in love with someone else whilst being in a relationship from my POV at least anyways. Ever been in this situation personally or not before in your life?

 

[Sara]

I have a crush back then when I was still a teenager. I was his secret admirer because I wasn't confident enough to tell him what I am thinking. I am always jealous when he's talking to girls or my friends.

I am a jealous lover but I hide it so well that my partner or crush won't know. I am not an obsessive person or trying being depressed because of a guy, it can't also lead to lust. My self control is topnotch.

 

[Tony]

Everyone have one or more secret admirers. The only thing is that you may or may not know they are admiring you. It's only when they show they are admiring you that you're going to know.

 

[Igba]

I don't have any secret admirers that I'm aware of. Even if I do, I wouldn't act like I know unless they express their feelings for me.

 

[Noble]

I do have secret admirers but it don't count for me. One of them summoned courage to tell me that she likes me but to me, she's just a friend.

 

[Bumble]

Who does secret admirers help? They are completely useless in my opinion because they don't add or take away anything in my life. I don't care about them.

 

[James]

Who does secret admirers help? They are completely useless in my opinion because they don't add or take away anything in my life. I don't care about them.

If they try to relate better with you, I do not see secret admirers as something that is not good. One thing that I've seen with secret admirers is that some might get jealous when they notice you are in a relationship.

 

[Angelina]

There's none that I'm aware of now. I do have when I was school but you know everybody is now busy with their life, no time to think about who admires or who you admire.

 

[Bumble]

If they try to relate better with you, I do not see secret admirers as something that is not good. One thing that I've seen with secret admirers is that some might get jealous when they notice you are in a relationship.

That's why I asked who do they help because as far as I'm concerned and know, they don't add anything good in someone's life. If they liked someone enough, they should express it.