Secret Admirers, anyone?

[Naiwen]

I have a few male college mates who worship me, putting me on a pedestal, which is making their current life partner (male or female) very jealous. If you're secretly in love with someone and have been for a long time without it being reciprocated, it could lead to obsession, lust, possession, depression and jealousy in your current relationship with your currently life partner if you are in one currently. It's not very healthy or advisable to be secretly in love with someone else whilst being in a relationship from my POV at least anyways. Ever been in this situation personally or not before in your life?

 

[Sara]

I have a crush back then when I was still a teenager. I was his secret admirer because I wasn't confident enough to tell him what I am thinking. I am always jealous when he's talking to girls or my friends.

I am a jealous lover but I hide it so well that my partner or crush won't know. I am not an obsessive person or trying being depressed because of a guy, it can't also lead to lust. My self control is topnotch.