So my RL best male bisexual friend has been secretly in love with me for 15 years, I have a few online secret admirers too. In fact, if I weren't aro-ace and sex-repulsed, I'd date my best male friend.
We all have a secret admirer in real life and online too. I have few ladies that are always admiring me online and offline. There's nothing wrong with and I've become friends with some of them, the one's that are reasonable.