Possession and Depression?

Naiwen

Naiwen

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Have you dated anyone who'd treat you like a possession, an object personally? I have and I've dated it. I'm not yours, I don't belong to you. I am my own person, mind, body and soul. So a guy on Facebook has even said : "You will love me". I don't think understand their logic, they think you MUST love them back because they are in love with you? Twisted, isn't it?
 
Well, some people have that mentality that you just love them because they love you. If it's not a gradual process, there's no need dating the guy or any girl trying to be in possession of you.
 
I have never dated anyone who treat me like a possession or an object. I wouldn't even allow that to happen. I think it's when you're so eye glued on money someone can use you like that in a relationship.
 
There are some relationships that I have seen where the men are trying to impose their opinions on the women. They made it look like it's a favour that the women are chosen by them but they don't know it's very wrong.
 
With my issues with abandonment I hate when people leave me and I believe if my husband were to leave me I would die. Like really. I'm not sure if I do it or not but maybe.
 
Nope that is not a kind of relationship you will want to find yourself into. When you see that kind of behavior you run very fast away.
 
That kind of union is just toxic. Nobody should be in such under any circumstances. Treating your partner as an object or one of your possessions is just the height of wickedness.
 
Flint said:
I have never dated anyone who treat me like a possession or an object. I wouldn't even allow that to happen. I think it's when you're so eye glued on money someone can use you like that in a relationship.
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It's not really about the money. There are some guys that doesn't have money but the way they treat their partner makes me to wonder if indeed they are humans. They always wanted to have the say in everything and when you asked them, they will call it love.
 
Sara said:
It's not really about the money. There are some guys that doesn't have money but the way they treat their partner makes me to wonder if indeed they are humans. They always wanted to have the say in everything and when you asked them, they will call it love.
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Some ladies can be very stupid. You're not there to enjoy the money, you're being treated like shit and also abused but you will still stay in the relationship. Why?
 
Jega said:
Some ladies can be very stupid. You're not there to enjoy the money, you're being treated like shit and also abused but you will still stay in the relationship. Why?
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It's a disorder not their fault. They might feel that nobody will accept them the way they are. Their mindset is that it's not easy to leave a relationship and start afresh.
 
Sara said:
It's a disorder not their fault. They might feel that nobody will accept them the way they are. Their mindset is that it's not easy to leave a relationship and start afresh.
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The longer you stay in a relationship where you are not supposed to be is the more you are going to get yourself hurt and even your mental health destabilised.
 
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