Obsession and Depression?

[Naiwen]

Ever been obsessed over by someone (male or female, no matter age, religion/culture and etc)? I have been and this middle aged mentally challenged man from my group therapy has thought of himself to be "very handsome and blond-haired" when he's obese, wrinkled, has white hair and wear glasses and is very ugly. Obsession with someone isn't love, but lust and something very scary and unhealthy. He/she could decide to kill himself.herself in her deluded fantasies about you. Or could do very dangerous thing to the person they are claiming to love : stalking, sexual harassment, being clingy to that person's attention, and etc). Been there, so I understand how being obsessed by someone feels. A mate of mine from my psych ward has decided to commit suicide over her obsessive unrequited love for her therapist/psychiatrist at 31 years old. So yeah, obsession with someone is very unhealthy. Be aware of your self-respect, self-dignity and self-worth before becoming obsessed with a deluded fantasy of someone.

 

[Igba]

The only thing that I would ever be obsessed with are my kids. Giving them the very best is my top priority and that makes me to be obsessed with them.

I know that it can be very challenging and difficult to deal with but I can't just help it.

 

[Sara]

I haven't been obsessed with anybody either a man or woman. I haven't been obsessed with my property talk more of a human being.

Also, nobody have been obsessed with me because I will never allow that to happen.

 

[Flint]

The only that I'm obsessed with is the happiness of my mother. She did so much for me in making sure that I become a better person in life. Now, it's my time to give her back everything to her.

 

[Sara]

I can't be obsessed with my mother or father. I know that they really tried much for me, starting from when I was born till I become somebody. Their love is mutual and not obsessed.

 

[Krissycakes09]

I'm not sure if I'm obsessed or whatever with my husband but I want to almost always want to be with him. Like we have to be in the same room playing on the computer or watching TV.