Obsession and Depression?

Naiwen

Naiwen

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Ever been obsessed over by someone (male or female, no matter age, religion/culture and etc)? I have been and this middle aged mentally challenged man from my group therapy has thought of himself to be "very handsome and blond-haired" when he's obese, wrinkled, has white hair and wear glasses and is very ugly. Obsession with someone isn't love, but lust and something very scary and unhealthy. He/she could decide to kill himself.herself in her deluded fantasies about you. Or could do very dangerous thing to the person they are claiming to love : stalking, sexual harassment, being clingy to that person's attention, and etc). Been there, so I understand how being obsessed by someone feels. A mate of mine from my psych ward has decided to commit suicide over her obsessive unrequited love for her therapist/psychiatrist at 31 years old. So yeah, obsession with someone is very unhealthy. Be aware of your self-respect, self-dignity and self-worth before becoming obsessed with a deluded fantasy of someone.
 
The only thing that I would ever be obsessed with are my kids. Giving them the very best is my top priority and that makes me to be obsessed with them.

I know that it can be very challenging and difficult to deal with but I can't just help it.
 
I haven't been obsessed with anybody either a man or woman. I haven't been obsessed with my property talk more of a human being.

Also, nobody have been obsessed with me because I will never allow that to happen.
 
The only that I'm obsessed with is the happiness of my mother. She did so much for me in making sure that I become a better person in life. Now, it's my time to give her back everything to her.
 
I can't be obsessed with my mother or father. I know that they really tried much for me, starting from when I was born till I become somebody. Their love is mutual and not obsessed.
 
I'm not sure if I'm obsessed or whatever with my husband but I want to almost always want to be with him. Like we have to be in the same room playing on the computer or watching TV.
 
Obsession in itself is not a good feeling. It can push the person feeling it to take drastic and extreme actions. Imagine now mixing that with depression, tragic.
 
Obsession is never good as a feeling for me. I can't be obsessed with anybody no matter how I love my partner. Depression and obsession are not good for anybody to be in.
 
If you're obsessive and depressed at the same time, it's a two problem in one that's going to very challenging to handle. I'll find it very difficult to work out anything with such person.
 
I've never had to deal with obsession or be in a relationship with any woman who's obsessed and depressed at the same time. I wouldn't know how to manage such a person if I'm being honest.
 
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