Kids and Finances?

Not at all. I had family planning right away. It was something I discussed with my partner the moment we got married. Immediately after our second kid, we did family planning. We are only interested in giving birth to the kids we can adequately take very good care of.
 
Don't get married if you're not financially good. Some people who rush into marriage out of blind love and it ruins them. If you're not capable of taking care of yourself and your kids, don't marry.
 
Jon said:
Don't get married if you're not financially good. Some people who rush into marriage out of blind love and it ruins them. If you're not capable of taking care of yourself and your kids, don't marry.
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This is my advice to everyone out there who is interested in getting married and starting a family tomorrow, if you know that you are not financially stable to be able to take care of yourself and also doing the same thing for your family, you shouldn't be thinking about getting married and having kids.
 
I have four kids and I would not say that I am financially ruined because of my kids, anyone who thinks that way had their kids for the wrong reasons.

With the cost of living and inflation being as high as it has been, it hasn't been easy for anyone but to say you are financially ruined and blame your kids is not something I think people should do.
 
Saying financially ruined is a strong phrase. I know my ability, so I have planned my family life in accordance with this ability. If everyone does not go beyond their financial means there will be no ruin anywhere.
 
Naiwen said:
Are you financially ruined because of your kids?
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No, I'm not financially ruined because of my kids. I had a family plan which I stick with. This have made it possible for me to take care of my family without having to face difficult challenges.
 
Kids don't ruin finances. The only reason that our finances can be ruined will be out of mismanagement. Before we can get married, we need to make sure that our income is coming in and spending wisely will help to manage the finances very well.
 
I'm not a mother yet but I know that I won't be financially ruined because of them because I will have family planning that will not cost me all my finances.
 
Kennysplash said:
Saying financially ruined is a strong phrase. I know my ability, so I have planned my family life in accordance with this ability. If everyone does not go beyond their financial means there will be no ruin anywhere.
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Staying within your means is smart planning. Knowing your limits early helps you avoid stress and build a more stable, sustainable family life overall.
 
I am planning well for the good financial life of my kid, so I am certain they will have a good life. I don’t plan to bring any kid into sub average lifestyle.
 
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