Jealousy and Depression?

[Naiwen]

I have a very jealous, possessive and obsessive of me college mate. He's the male best friend who's been in love with me secretly for 15 years, and currently in a same sex relationship, bisexual or pansexual. And he'd be jealous of any guy who'd dare approach me, even as friends. I think for people like him, it must be very tiring and depressive being so jealous, obsessive and possessive all the time. I don't really envy him. I pity him personally TBH here.

 

[Jason]

Being possessive isn't a good idea. My friend was like that with one girl and he lost her when it was probably preventable. I try not to be possessive, but rather be attractive. Nonetheless, I am sometimes misinterpreted as being possessive when really I just feel abandoned.

 

[Sara]

I can't be jealous if my lover or even think of being possessive. The only thing I made him know is that he can only be trustworthy and committed. I, on my own part was trying my best to be matured enough not to bring things that will make our relationship scatter.