Naiwen
Member
I've been in a situation at my volunteer job, when 2-3 men would fall for me. 2 are father and son, the father is married and is 72 years old, the son is single, but 15 years my senior. The son has even had his father propose to me, which I've said no to. I don't wanna marry and wear a hijab for anyone. The other man in love with me is 80-90 years old, divorced with great-grandkids, almost dying, has asked me "Do you have a boyfriend" and I'm like : "What for?". I've really no use for a life partner/spouse (man or woman) myself. On a few occasions 2 guys my age around would fall for me. One being one of my best male mate and his boyfriend, and the other being my ex female friend's boyfriend. All of these men were really wealthy, not filthy rich, but at least they could live comfortably with their income. So yeah. That's the story of my love life. A few men from my therapy groups would fall in love with me too (very old, 70 years old and up), white-haired, very obese, very ugly, wearing glasses and dentures. Over here around where I live, they don't respect a person's consent and age anymore. If they are in love with you, you must be in love with them too. So do they assume so. And they start kissing and touching you everywhere as you were already his or her girlfriend/boyfriend. It just baffles me and I don't understand their mindset. I'm going out with you as friends and consider you as much and you mistake and misunderstand it as "me being in love with you"? Too weird for me personally at least anyways.
