I personally, as a sex-repulsed aro-ace person, find sex, all sexual fluids and content to be gross and cringe-worthy. I find relationship, romance and dating to be boring, stressful, melodramatic, time, energy consuming and suffocating. I can't even do anything on my own and my ex used to ask me to buy stuff for him or pay for his share at our dates so yeah. It's just spending my money. Hence why, I'd rather be single and celibate for life than in bad company. I prefer my freedom and independence over a relationship. I find romance and dating to be overrated as sex and relationships are too for me personally at least anyways.