I don't have kids and I have been afraid if my kids won't tell me about all the escapades they do but I never want them to do things unless they come of age.
A teenager don't need a baby because they are teenagers. A teenager can only face her studies till she's at the verge where she can make choices by herself. That phase is not when to have unprotected sex.
All of us were babies and toddlers even before we became adults. When I have my own kids, I won't try to be violent and abusive towards them, gets to show them all of the love and care.
It's your life and anyhow you live it is not anybody's business but as for me and few others, I will never hate kids because I will have them some day.
I'm not a mother yet but I know that I won't be financially ruined because of them because I will have family planning that will not cost me all my finances.
It's not easy to take care of kids both one or more. I never wished that a mother will be depressed from home activities and works, I hope that there will be more awareness for mothers so that they can take care of their mental health too.
Spoilt brats are everywhere and I don't really blame them because it's from their parents. A child can't be a brat if the parents don't have a hand on it. Good parenting starts from when kids are younger.
Being surrogate is never bad at all, some ladies are really into it and it's paying them much. The reason why ladies do that was because some people can't offer to have their own kids, they do that to help them out.
We are humans and we have flaws especially what will lead us to depression. It's not about the kids, just that we can always lash out at them because they are always available to take our shit but it's never good to do that on them.
I don't know if things have changed in schools but when I was in school, there wasn't anything like awareness about mental health among children, all they knew about is fees and things related to it.
I don't have kids yet but I have my sister who make sure to hide everything from her kids so that they won't misunderstood whatever that's coming to her. As for me, I will tell my kids when I knew they have come of age to handle some certain things.