What is Love?

Naiwen

Naiwen

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As a aro-ace, agender, touch-negative and antisocial person, I don't feel anything in the presence of another human being. I see touching and kissing as "invasions of my personal space" personally for me at least anyways. But if you're one of my best mates or I have known you for awhile, I will feel really guilty and bad for rejecting you romantically speaking only though. I have no sexual desires TBH or romantic feelings at all personally for another person, same sex or not.
 
Love isn't sex or any erotic emotional touches. Sex is a feelings that human beings have or had when the chemistry between the both parties matches. Love is a feeling of accomodation, kindness, patience that you can show your neighbours or friends.
 
It is a shame that you cannot see yourself loving someone because you know that they will definitely want to have sexual intercourse with you. Since it is not something you want, there is no need for you to be in a relationship.
 
There's sex without love but there can never be love without sex. This might sound confusing reading it first but when you read it slowly to understand, then it will make sense.
 
Roberto said:
It is a shame that you cannot see yourself loving someone because you know that they will definitely want to have sexual intercourse with you. Since it is not something you want, there is no need for you to be in a relationship.
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Sex doesn't mean you are loved. You can love someone without thinking sexually about them. This kind is the real type of love that we all can explore without shame.
 
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