Naiwen
Member
Were/are will you (be) ever friends with benefits with anyone personally? TBH, I wouldn't as I find sex disgusting and it's never on my mind as a sex-repulsed aro-ace, agender and touch-negative person.
Friends with Benefits?
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Shortie
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I have only once ever been friends with benefits with someone and it was back when I was in a mentally abusive relationship, it was a way for me to be around someone who cared and made me feel like I meant something over me being nothing. I am happy to say I am now out of the mentally abusive relationship I was in and I am in a happy relationship now.
Sara
Member
Sometimes, friends with benefits can mar or break a person and it can also make someone to have a change of heart on things they are afraid to encounter. I haven't have the experience before and I don't know how it feels for others.
Flint
New member
If you that you're going to be a cheater in a serious relationship, I think that it's better for you to have friends with benefits mutual arrangements with as many people you want as possible.
Sara
Member
How many people will have this mutual arrangements and I will still see myself as decent. Not every friendship I have is good for having such benefits. It's better I have one friend I can do that with than having more than one.
Frost
Member
There's no way you can start friends with benefits when you're not interested in having sex. Unless the benefits are spelt out not to include sex in it.