Recent content by Shortie

As someone who has been in love before, I do know that it doesn't seem possible to be in love with two people at all even though many people would say that they are or have been. A lot of the time it is love for one and lust for another that they confuse as love and believe that they are in love...

I have always been pretty laid back with my kids unless they have done something seriously bad in which case, then they know they are in trouble. I feel with how I have brought my children up, they are quite open with me and my two eldest who are 17 and 19 now (my daughter will be 18 in...

If you have had a lot of bad experiences when you have been in any relationship, I can fully understand why you would see no point in them and would want to stay away from them. I myself have been in a few relationships, some that were good and just didn't work out and others that were bad. I...

My gender identity is female. I was born a female and I am happy being a female and that is how I identify. I can understand those who do not feel comfortable identifying as one or the other or even any though and you have to do what you feel comfortable with.

It's not the first time I have heard someone say that they feel repulsed when it comes to sex. It is a very real thing that some people go through but it doesn't mean that it is something that is disgusting or should not be something men and women do if they enjoy it. Everyone is different though.

Many will be shocked to hear I have not seen a single John Wick movie. I am always told to watch them as they are so good but to this day, I still haven't yet. My son has seen all the movies though and he is excited about John Wick 4, he has also recommended that I watch all of them and then...

I don't suffer from bipolar, no but I do have a friend that suffers from bipolar, and at the moment, he does have it in control with medication but if he does forget to take his medication, that is when he notices his symptoms will worsen. I can't imagine what it is like to live with bipolar but...

When it comes to suffering anxiety attacks, the main thing to focus on is your breathing if you can. I always find that when I have an anxiety attack, if someone tells me to focus on something, keep focused on it, and then take deep breaths that usually helps me a lot. It's about finding what...

I never used to have panic attacks myself even though I was always an anxious person, that was until I got into a relationship that ended up being mentally abusive. Now I find that if I get too anxious about something, I will go into a panic attack and unless I have someone there with me to help...

Quitting smoking is never easy to do. My mum and my dad both smoked cigarettes for years and they both one day decided they were done and wanted to quit, they did and never looked back. My dad smoked for 40 years and he never thought he would be able to do it but he did. My advice is to stand...

Losing any family member or even friend is never easy at all. Over the last few years, I have lost a few family members and friends and nothing ever prepares you to hear that they have passed. I always say that if you need the time to grieve and come to terms with the loss, make sure you take...

I personally go for men who have good personalities, treat women right, and are also polite and respectful. Many men for some reason (not all I know) seem to think that if a man has a lot of money they will be instantly attracted to them. A lot of the time, if you get with someone who has a lot...

I can't say I have ever been cat-called but I have been wolf-whistled at in the past by guys out on the street. I tend to just keep walking and not pay any attention to them as a lot of the time, they tend to be with friends and they end up just doing it to show off in front of their friends...

Handling rejection is something that is not always easy to do especially if you are really into someone but it is something you do have to accept so that it doesn't cause issues for either party. I personally have been rejected by others and I have also rejected others as well. I myself have...

I was born a female and I am happy a female and wouldn't ever want to change my gender at all. I am not against people who do not feel happy in their own bodies though and do not feel happy with the sex they are and I can understand why they would, in the end, want to change that, especially if...