Depression can be really difficult to get over and can still be quite easy to get over we all just have to find strength from within ourselves and always find a way to be happy.
Well, this might be caused by other factors other than menopause , maybe you are worried over something maybe related to what the future could and other worries, just find something that makes you truly happy and focus that energy on it.
I haven't been any traumatic event that made me have suicidal thoughts but I could actually understand a bit because I have also experienced certain hard times that took me extra effort to get over it.
Every gender is affected by domestic violent either they are the ones on the recieving end or the other way round.
I would suggest you have a feel conversation with her and if she is not reasonable enough tell it to her family and then you could leave the marriage to protect your mental health.
I haven't been with any Aro - Ace maybe I might have but the person didn't open up to me that they could be an Aro - Ace, either ways I don't really want to get into any romantic relationship with anyone at this point though.
I haven't come in contact with any aro -ace and to honest you are the only aro-ace person I might have come remotely close to maybe others don't open up as you do but it is perfectly okay if you are not interested in any form of romantic relationship.
I am straight but I have had bisexual and lesbian women fall in love with me in the past but I just try to keep our relationship above the water and I don't try to lead them on with whatever kind of affection they might be feeling towards me.
Looking more inward than looking for happiness outwardly is a good way to ease off depression, we are full of emotion and meditation helps to give an individual control over them.
It wasn't mostly about healing but salvation of your soul by believing in him as the son of God and through his selfless sacrifice on the cross we are all made right before God.